would it bother you if your current gf or fiance had her ex’s name tattoo on her lower back and then writing in between her shoulder blades that said ( his name ) forever , but in another language. and if it did bother you and your gf wouldn’t get a cover up , would that bother you ? lol i have those tattoos but i dont care what my future bfs think i only care what i think, its my body and i have no regrets . but, im interested to see what people on here think . thanks for your opinions 
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the lower back tattoo with his name is in english / the other one ( his name ) forever , is the one thats a different language
i have no feelings for my ex at all, but if my future bf TRULY loves me , a name tattoo won’t bother him
the reason i’m keeping them on my body is because i don’t like picture tattoos only word tattoos and its impossible to cover it with words. and i have no regrets so it doesnt bother me ,
i did get the tattoos done while we were still together , why would i get his name after we broke up lol makes no sence
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Me personally. . .
I wouldn’t get anyones name on my body. I don’t really like words for tattoos that much. I like pictures.
But if for no other reason than it’s considered the kiss of death in a relationship. I know a few people who’ve gotten tattoos for their girlfriends. They all regret it.
My opinion is I would want my future bf or fiancee to have the tatoo either removed or covered. Look at Angelina Jolie. She got rid of Billy Bobs name. Because maybe you might meet Mr. right and he might not want that. Put yourself in his place, would you want your future bf/fiancee to have his ex’s name on him?????
I would hate it. My hubby had his exs name on his knuckles. He did it when he was young and silly. When he proposed to me I said. . . . Only if you remove that name from your Knuckles. . . . . so he did and here we are 15 years later and 2 gorgeous girls 11 and 13 and we just had a son. I would not have liked to see his exs name in any language on his body. He had it lasered off and the scaring is minimal, I think putting any name on your skin is risky. . . . . except for maybe MUM!!!!!
I have my ex-husband’s name on my lower back and my boyfriend isn’t bothered by it. . . . he knows I love him. . . . Everyone has a past. . . it’s nothing to be ashamed of!
if you are hot then no guy in the world would care
I don’t want to be crass, but in my opinion, the only reason to have a tattoo on your back is for someone else to read it. When I consider your question and realize that if I were in a position to read your ex’s name on your upper and lower back. . . I’m guessing I wouldn’t wanna see the flag of the country that had explored the frontier before I. Just my two cents. If it were me, I’d get it covered but the only name I’d consider putting on my body would be my daughter’s.
If the guy’s can’t accept it oh well the past is the past tell them get over it or you will get over him.
biggest thing is learn from his mistake, tattooing a spouses name on you is number one jinx to a relationship
yea. it would totally bother me. I would not be able to date that person if he would not agree to cover the tats with something else. . .
hopefully you will meet somebody that doesn’t mind. . . but I wouldn’t be so dead set on never covering it up! U might loose somebody special!
No regrets!
It’s someone you loved. . . . . you can’t change that. Be proud of it.
Yes it would bother me! I condone tats and have them myself. But this is just tacky. Not to smart having someone’s name tattooed on a person, I can see children. . . .
You will care what your future b/f think if that guy you really like doesn’t want to be with you because of your ex being in bed with you, always there. Just get it covered up or removed. Unless of course you still have a thing for that b/f.
yea. . .
its really bother me as well because the tattoo will look weird
Yes, sure.
it would for a while but then I would laugh because now I am with them ^_^ so I won!
Yes.
And not because it is indelible proof that they had someone else before you came along, someone they said the same sweet words to and made the same sweet love to.
Because only a total tool would tattoo a Significant Others name on their flesh. It shows poor judgment, bad monetary policy, and general all around stupidity.
that’s pretty silly IMO.
no , it would’nt bother me. it would be a part of his past and his past tattoos are like a tapestry of his life ( wow i like that ) and it should’nt bother me to know he had a past as i have one too. people really should not get names tattooed on them ( at least of lovers anyway) for that very reason though.
It would only bother me until I could get all my things packed up and move out.
yes
Yes, but it bothered him as well. He got it when he was VERY young, in the army and too drunk to make a life-long decision. They’d gotten married when she got pregnant and that was long enough ago that you HAD to “do the right thing” by getting married. It wasn’t a jealousy thing as he didn’t really love her even when he got it. It was a bit of a turn-off to see it all of the time though. He wanted rid of it and laser removal is very costly. I certainly didn’t want him to replace it with one with my name on it but he did. I was really upset in fact. He said it was no different than what he told me when we got married- a line from an old country song “I put a golden ring on the right left hand this time. ” He said the same about “my” tattoo. BOTH were right as we’ve been together 24 years.
I don’t think the tattoo itself would bother me. People fall in and out of love, make mistakes in choosing the person that is right for them. BUT. . . unless there was some legitimate reason why she would want to leave it there (say it would be difficult to cover it, physically painful, expensive, or would destroy some artistic element of the design that she really likes), I think her refusal to cover it if I asked her to would bother me. If the reasons for keeping it are sentimental, I would wonder what emotional attatchment she still had to her former relationships. It’s difficult to move on and devote yourself to someone new when you haven’t yet left the past.
ya it would bother me put yourself in the shoes turn it around girlie.
Yes, it will bother me and it should bother anyone who is not insane. But even otherwise I hate this business of putting tattoes on the body – be it text or Graphics.
Tattoo’s of other peoples names are a bit of a problem, they are in some respects the kiss of death to a relationship. Almost before the ink has dried the relationship is over.
You are 100% right it should not bother your future boyfriend at all, if it does then it says more about them than you.
To be honest with you after looking at your picture’s I think any future boyfriend will be very very luck to go out with you as you look like as real babe.
P. S. I love the photo’s of your dog, I have one that looks almost the same as yours.
It wouldnt bother me if the tatoo made a good read. Maybe a couple of pages of a good book. Id ask you to turn over so i could read the next installment
Uf you love someone then change it or cover it up. Thats love. Thats sacrifice. I dont have any but if I did I would surely take that sick old name off and worship my boyfriend and make him happy by just taking it off for him.
i’d find a voodoo doll
Happygogilmore, I was just fixing to add a simular comment but you hit the nail right on the head!
To answer the question with a little more fizz.
Female, you said it’s your boby and you don’t care but, when you get a new bf, ask him and see how he may feel. It he doesn’t like it, then leave him and keep looking until you find a man who wouldn’t care if he had to look at another mans name on your back durning certain romantic situations.
i will not, it is his body after all. (:
I can say without reservations that it would definitely bother me. It is not that I am insecure, but if I wanted to marry her and she refused to at least cover them, I would have serious problems. What do you tell your kids? “oh, sorry, that was one of mommy’s old boyfriend’s. ” Sounds too trashy before the conversation even begins. I recommend not getting guy’s names tattooed on your body unless they are your kids’ names, or your husband’s name and you are NEVER going to leave him. Otherwise you will end up looking like a gas station bathroom wall, tramp-stamped with every guy you’ve been semi-serious with.
No, if she is sexy like you.
no it was a past mistake
Everyone likes to think they are their special person’s number one. How can that happen with someone else’s name staring at them all the time. If you care about your current partner at least be considerate enough to let them pick out the cover up that they like. When you are half of a whole it isn’t only your opinion that counts anymore.
‘It would bother me’ because someone might think he’s me, maybe he would think he’s me and be confused because there it is written on his arm. I wouldn’t mind the reverse though because I like being owned; I would want to be something someone would like to buy for ever
In western society people who have tattoo’s of any kind are looked down on as being cheap and from the wrong side of the tracks, i don’t like tattoo’s especially on a woman.
depends if it was the same sex as my gf! ie homosexual before me!
it should not bother you because you should except the fact that they are no longer together thats all ive got to say wishing you the best with him though
Yes it would bother me. . . Because everytime i have to see the tatoo it would remind me of the one who broke my mothers heart and i’m sure her next boyfriend will not like seeing another guys name on his girlfriend.
If it was my girl? Well, I would be embarrassed to bring her around my friends, because they would surely rip on me if they saw me with a girl with another guys name on her. So, as long as they they never saw it, i guess it could work. . . lol. If you don’t care what your future boyfriend thinks, chances are he is going to be a bitch amongst men. Sorry, you will get a guy i’m sure, but he is probally gonna have no self confidence. It just wouldn’t be me, thats for sure.
It would bother me if a guy had his ex-girlfriends name tatooed to his body. It would really be a turn off for me. I wouldn’t go out with this guy that liked me because I knew from his friends that he had “Yvonne” tattooed across his chest.
actually it would be very bothering, unless you ask you current fiance
or
you could tell him that you had the tatoo done when you were still together
yes it would bother me if my boyfriend had his EX’S NAME ON HIS BODY!!!!!
Yup it would piss me off.
But not because of the name, more that they were that stupid in the first place and got the damn thing.
yes it would matter a lot
IF you have NO REGRETS, then why are you asking this question? IF you are soooo sure that you DON’T care what your future boyfriend thinks, WHY are you asking this question???
I dont think its wrong. the person you will be with in the future should love you enough to not even care about that. You must have realy loved the guy to get it done and if you havent covered it up you must care about him still. In my opinion if you dont want to cover it up dont and if future bfs have a problem with it then they dont really love you and they are not worth being with. . . .
Myfiance had his ex’s name on his arm and she caused nothing but trouble for us, so having her name on him really bothered me, and because he knew it bothered me he had it covered up. He wanted to put my name but I wouldn’t let him make that mistake again so he let me pick the tat he was going to get. He ended up with an awesome tribal. . . . . that’s love.
Thank you, ma’am. You’ve just re-emphasized exactly why I’d never get an others name tattooed.
I would b/c ur body is ur temple and having someone else’s name on ur temple means that ur planning to be with that person till ur or thier death and u are unwilling to move on, on a subconsious level. I’m sure u wouldn’t like if u partner had the same
well, getting someones name tattoo’d on them is a rediculous thing to do anyhow, but i do have to say. . . it really shows that love blinds people when they really think that its forever and are willing to put a mark on their body forever of that person. The fact of the matter is that the stupidity of them putting that tattoo on them in the first place would kinda bother me but to have their ex’s name on them. NO that part of it wouldnt bother me, just because their name is on them really means absolutely nothing. . . and im sure whatever EMOTIONAL REASON they got the tattoo in the first place(blinded love most likely) has changed so who cares really. I understand it, yet i dont, but it wouldnt bother me. whats the point, they are eachothers EX’s and thats just that, the tattoo will have no effect on that.
I just recently got out of a re-bound relationship with someone who had their ex’s name tatted on their wasteline. I couldn’t stand the fact of getting sexual with them, with the name there. It took them a whole year to get it covered up, so u know the frustration we had sexually. Needless to say, we are no longer together… My ex (love of my life) has my name tattooed on them twice! Their new gf goes crazy about them, but my ex tells her that I am in the past,and to “Deal with it”.
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